3 Major Signs Your Man’s Female ‘Friend’ Is About To Become His Mistress

3 Major Signs Your Man’s Female ‘Friend’ Is About To Become His Mistress

Pay CLOSE attention.

Here’s the deal: your boyfriend/husband will have a social life. So will you. That means he’ll have friends — and some of them will probably be women.

That shouldn’t faze the confident woman who is secure in herself, her capabilities, and her desirability. But what if he regularly texts his female friends? Should you be concerned? Is this a bad sign of things to come?

Maybe. Maybe not.

It’s perfectly okay for someone in a committed relationship to communicate with friends — regardless of whether those friends are women or men. A man who is in love with a woman won’t mind telling his friends about his girlfriend or wife, so he should always make it abundantly clear to any women he’s talking to that he’s in a committed relationship already. If he hasn’t done this, then this raises the question of why he hasn’t told them about you.

He should also let you in on his friendships with other people, too, regardless of whether they’re men or women. But when is it reasonable to be concerned about his friendship habits?

Here are 3 red flags that your guy’s hiding something:

1. He texts his woman friend for long periods of time … or late at night.

This is bad news. If he’s devoting excessive amounts of time to texting one particular friend — a female one, at that — and doing so late at night, it’s very possible that things could cross beyond platonic relations.

2. He deletes certain text conversations or suddenly decides to password-lock his phone (without a credible excuse).

This is another huge red flag. If he’s deleting texts, it almost certainly means something’s going on that he doesn’t want you to know about. And if this is a regular, consistent thing he does, be wary of what he might be up to with his so-called friend.

3. He’s talking to other women friends about issues he should be talking to you about.

If your man is suddenly clamming up about problems at work, or issues in his home life, but his female “friend” seems to have all of the details, this is a warning sign. A man should trust his partner first and foremost to be his confidant. It might be a sign that he’s forming a connection with another woman — definitely a big red flag.

So what can you do? If you are uncomfortable with how much he talks to other women — or the way he talks to them — have a conversation with him and gauge his response. If he’s understanding and reasonable, then you probably don’t need to worry. But if he becomes defensive or hostile and mad at you, then this may be a deflection tactic.

Remember this: A woman in a healthy relationship will be able to communicate with her partner about things that make her uncomfortable — and she should be able to do this freely and without being the target of hostility.