Check out these clues that you might be someone’s option, instead of their equal priority, to see if any match up with your situation.
1. You’re always the one making dates, not him.
2. When big news happens to him, good or bad, you find out way later.
3. He returns calls/texts in an untimely fashion.
4. You don’t have the “girlfriend” title.
5. He makes weekend/vacation plans without considering you.
6. You hear a lot of “I” but not a lot of “we.”
7. Your vote doesn’t count for much.
8. He doesn’t introduce you to anyone, not even is friends
9. He doesn’t discuss his plans with you.
You deserve to be someone’s priority, plain and simple. If you find that you have lessened yourself to someone’s option, you need to look within. After all, if you aren’t making YOU your own priority, why should someone else?