5. She doesn’t know how to ask for help
Women tend to take on the world, but don’t know how to or are afraid to ask for help. Asking for help can make her feel she is inadequate, failure or giving up control. These feelings not only cause her unhappiness, but also prevent her from asking for help. Try and offer help even when she doesn’t ask.
6 She is wearing too many hats
Women have several different titles: wife, mom, employee, cook, maid, coiffure, volunteer, friend, daughter, and fixer of all problems. While she is most likely proud of the hats she wears, occasionally they pull her in too many directions. When she doesn’t have adequate time for each role, some are neglected, and she knows it. Your wife is not happy when she can’t give 100% to every role she takes on.
7. She is not taking enough time for herself
This is a huge reason why wives aren’t happy, but a difficult one to permanently fix. A forced night out with friends or spa day once in a while will help, but making a woman regularly take time out for herself is hard. She may feel guilty, selfish or like she is neglecting another more important duty by taking alone time. The hard part is, by not spending time on herself, she is sabotaging her own happiness. It is vital to have moments of rejuvenation and relaxation so she has the energy to devote herself to other responsibilities.
8. She is tired
Sometimes, a woman’s unhappiness is simple due to the fact that she is tired. Who is the first to wake up in your house? Who is the last to go to bed? Who stays up and cook/cleans/organizes works while everyone else is taking a nap? In most homes, it is the wife. Sometimes five hours of sleep is the most she’ll get a night until the kids are grown and gone and she has retired. Keep that in mind when trying to find ways to help your wife be happy.
I hope with these ideas you’d see just why your wife is not happy. Despite what is troubling her, your priority is to just keep loving her. And with her knowing she is loved by you helps more than you know. Try help her discover the cause of her unhappiness. Until she sees it, she won’t be able to overcome it. Common man, be her rock and support and all she would really love/want you to be. Hey, She needs you now more than ever.